"Anyone who cannot come to terms with his life while he is alive needs on hand to ward off a little his despair over his fate—he has little success in this—but with the other hand he can note down what he sees among the ruins, for he sees different (and more) things than do the others; after all, dead as he is in his own lifetime, he is the real survivor. This assumes that he does not need both hands, or more hands than he has, in his struggle against despair."--Kafka



Friday, October 7, 2011

Dealing with my cases......

Work at night at office tonight. Finally have free time to contact my cases. It's so delighted for me to engage them securely. A crisis case is fine now and I know I have laid ground for further work. I use the method of NVC and it seems working. Maybe I can use mindfulness?? Another case is a difficult family case. I know the direction. Hopefull I can do sth worthwhile =).

Sunday, October 2, 2011

帶工作回家去

一向以來,除了極例外的情況外(例如我對該工作興趣大得很),否則我是不會把工作帶回家的。 新工作開工三個月了,我開始破例把工作帶回家,原因有三,一是我們的公司不太鼓勵員工不準時下班,二是實在太多工作要做,三是我這個人對工作有時會想得太多,就拖慢了工作進度。為了適應,我要實行幾大絕招:一是盡快投入工作狀態,拖延是太奢侈了;二是不要想,只要做;三是把工作帶回家去。 而這真的很累人,我得不要令自己把工作帶回家。 回家能夠讀一本書,清空自己腦袋,反思,思考,體會,才是我最想的生活。