"Anyone who cannot come to terms with his life while he is alive needs on hand to ward off a little his despair over his fate—he has little success in this—but with the other hand he can note down what he sees among the ruins, for he sees different (and more) things than do the others; after all, dead as he is in his own lifetime, he is the real survivor. This assumes that he does not need both hands, or more hands than he has, in his struggle against despair."--Kafka



Monday, January 10, 2011

天梯?小菜一碟

朋友說「天梯」這首歌背後的真人真事很感人,聽得流淚,上網查看,我卻沒有太多感覺,原因不是我寡情(偏偏是我很重情的人),而是在這個年代,談這等事情還有什麼意義?在這個年代,愛情是:
1. 夠歲數要拍拖、結婚,就去做了,生有時,死有時;
2. 任何節日都等同情人節;
3. 是facebook msn sms 和電話;
4. 是把世界擠成只得兩個人,消費主義都圍著團團轉;
5. 暗戀變成了戇居;
6. 拍拖是試下試下;
7. 柏拉圖式戀愛沒意義,幾時上床你有幾多身家才是正經事;
8. 計算得失和機會成本

老派人要堅守一件事不是太難,只因現在這個世界能堅持的人太少吧,以前兩地相思等閒事,現在一日不通電就代表戀情告急了。天天鑿天梯很難麼?一點也不難,對有些人來說,實在是小事一宗,小菜一碟,只要是別無他想,夠專注愛一個人就夠了。

——更掃興是,這道「愛情天梯」已成了旅遊景點。我的寡情,你明白了嗎?

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