她跟我訴說做論文時資料搜集的壓力，她懼怕那些人，但那些人就是她的研究對象，我問：「那題目是你選的，為何那麼怕但還要選這首題？」她說：「或者我是來克服它的。」然後就告訴我那些可怕的創傷往事。
也難怪，也許最能推動一個人前進的是恐懼，而我也很清楚我也是受到許多的夢魘，才要刻意要自己從這些惡夢中醒過來，我不是要迴避它，而是要迎接它、征服它。
Courage consists not of the absence of fear and anxiety but of the capacity to move ahead even though one is afraid. - Rollo May
"Anyone who cannot come to terms with his life while he is alive needs on hand to ward off a little his despair over his fate—he has little success in this—but with the other hand he can note down what he sees among the ruins, for he sees different (and more) things than do the others; after all, dead as he is in his own lifetime, he is the real survivor. This assumes that he does not need both hands, or more hands than he has, in his struggle against despair."--Kafka
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