人總有太多缺陷
譬如我來說，我焦慮，我緊張，我矛盾
自在不是說有就有
也需要經歷一個過程
而人的缺陷不會完全改過來
黑暗面伴隨終生
但人最大的掙扎，就是最大希望的來源
所以我依然焦慮，緊張
依然不自在，掙扎
想很多
但這就是我
我不會勉強自己變成另一個模樣
但我在人生中最差的境況中學習
而學會與自己的黑暗面自處
可能就成了我接納別人黑暗面的動力來源
Courage consists not of the absence of fear and anxiety but of the capacity to move ahead even though one is afraid. - Rollo May
"Anyone who cannot come to terms with his life while he is alive needs on hand to ward off a little his despair over his fate—he has little success in this—but with the other hand he can note down what he sees among the ruins, for he sees different (and more) things than do the others; after all, dead as he is in his own lifetime, he is the real survivor. This assumes that he does not need both hands, or more hands than he has, in his struggle against despair."--Kafka
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